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An end to the disapproving father figure

An end to the disapproving father figure

Ego death and relationship changes

Apr 29, 2023
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We have a carefully constructed environment of relational forces, which reinforce our established sense of self. We have each co-signed many unwritten contracts of relating.

I will do this thing for you. You will reflect back this desired image of me. I will enable this habit of yours. You will give me love in return. And so on.

We often contract with mul…

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